Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Honoring Veterans Day (blog post I wrote on behalf of Midwest Dairy)

How Can We Say ‘Thank You’ to Veterans this Veterans Day?


Running the Marine Corp Marathon in Washington, D.C. surrounded by Veterans will change you. I was starting to get sore and tired, that was until we hit mile 13. At mile 13, we entered into what is called ‘The Blue Mile’ and every 10 yards was a poster of a fallen veteran. I turned my head and studied each photo as I ran by. My heart hurt more and more with each passing one. Each poster showed someone’s dad, son, brother, uncle, mom, daughter and sister. They no longer could feel pain; they no longer had aching muscles, or lungs burning for air like I did at the moment. My prayer was hopefully they found peace after paying the ultimate sacrifice for this great country.

I glanced up from the posters and watched a squadron of Marines running together wearing their full combat gear complete with boots, fatigues, rucksack, and even their helmet. I saw a Marine with a service dog because his leg had irreparable damage so the service dog helps with his balance. I looked at a disabled veteran racing in his wheelchair. I even marveled a lady running the whole marathon on crutches. Each one of them was running this race for their own personal reason. Some were running to pay tribute or honor someone who had served and/or currently serving in the armed forces, some were running on behalf of a charity, some were running just because they could! As I continued to run past the posters, I started to give thanks for the aches, the soreness, and most specifically the pain because for me to feel pain, means that I am still alive!
Running a full marathon (26.2 miles) may seem hard to most people, but let me ask you, is it harder than going through boot camp? Or boarding that airplane that will take you overseas to war?  Is it harder than watching a fallen comrade take their last breath as the medics frantically try to save them? Is it harder than a soldier finally taking their first step in a prosthetic after stepping on an IED? A marathon is nothing compared to what our Veterans are asked to endure every day and the wounds and memories that they carry with them can leave such deep scars that many of us civilians have no comprehension and never will.
The Marine Corp Marathon embodies the true patriotism that this country stands for. We run to honor our veterans, we run to honor those currently serving, and we run to honor those who paid the ultimate sacrifice. Veterans Day has always been personal to me due to my three brothers serving in the military (Navy, Army, and Marine) but now I finally got the chance to be submersed in countless Veterans, and feel their pride swell around them as we all aimed for that goal of crossing the finish line. The climax of the day was an active-duty Marine placing our medals over our heads and saluting us. What an indescribable feeling for dairy farmers from North Dakota.
On November 11th, we celebrate Veterans Day to say ‘Thank You’ to all military that has served and are currently serving. We thank them for their decision to sign up for the military. We thank them for going to fight for our freedom. We thank them for time lost from their precious families. We thank them for the trials they bring home with them from war both physical and emotional. We thank them because they chose to defend our country’s freedom regardless of the consequences that might follow. They don’t ask for recognition or tributes. So how can we really say ‘Thank You’ to our Veterans? How about we actually start saying it whenever we see a Veteran? How about we stand-up for them? How about we donate to Veterans funds and programs? How about we even go as far to volunteer or start a foundation to help them once they have returned from war? Whatever you do, just do something! Their service is not in vain and it is up to us civilians not just to tell them, but to show them every day. For a very wise leader of this amazing country once said:

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 See Full Article at: http://www.dairymakessense.com/2014/11/11/can-say-thank-veterans-veterans-day/

Thursday, October 23, 2014

Food and Nutrition Conference and Expo Recap!


I haven't been writing on my blog as much as I have wanted and I really want to apologize and say that, whew, it has been busy!  On top of being mommy, the dairy, kids sports, harvesting, marathon training, I flew out for Atlanta, GA last Saturday to attend FNCE (Food and Nutrition Conference and Expo) on behalf of Monsanto and Americas Farmers.  I flew in on Saturday and my brother, who lives not far from Atlanta, picked me up at the airport and off we went to advocate for agriculture!

We got settled into our hotel, then went down to the hotel lobby to catch-up with each other over nachos and a beverage.  The couple that was sitting next to us, struck up a conversation and pretty quickly I learned I was sitting next to a vegetarian that was not a fan of Monsanto or farmers in general.  Needless to say, it was very interesting.  But, I did get some points across, listened to her concerns, and did my best to explain and educate.  So when we met up with the Monsanto Crew, I was a little nervous about the conference because if this little slice of conversation was going to set the tone for the weekend, I was not super excited.  But we went out to a fabulous restaurant, FloatAway CafĂ©, met the great people of Monsanto, discussed the plan for next few days, and even got to see a few celebrities:
My brother with Kurtwood Smith from various movies and television like 'That 70's Show'.  He was so nice to take a quick picture with us.  There was another celebrity there, but she refused to take a picture...
The next two days from 9am-3pm we worked the Expo.  Let me just say that Expo really doesn't describe how huge it was!  It was at the Atlanta Conference Center, and it was packed with companies, businesses, and people all there to talk about Food and Nutrition (who doesn't want to walk around and eat food all day long?).  When we first got there, I was astounded at the phenomenal booth set-up by Monsanto with visibly appealing pictures, information, and displays.  There were 3 computers ready for people to take a short quiz so they could get registered to win a prize (Coach Purse, Mini IPAD, or a $350 LuLu Lemon Gift Certificate), there were 5 different packets of Garden Seeds to hand-out so people could start a garden, and then 'CropPops' which were popiscles that were made directly from fruit and vegetables (my favorite was the Caramel Corn made with real corn!)  So my brother and myself jumped right in handing out Garden Seed Packets and then engaged people in conversation about gardening, crops, food, our dairy farm, nutrition for my kids, marathon training, or wherever the conversation would lead!  It was amazing the broad range of questions we got.  The Monsanto Crew had a wide arrange of people on hand from people who did Marketing, Social Media, a Crop Quality Control Specialist, scientists, plant biologists, and more so that whenever I got a tough question, I could go over to the person who specialized in that field, grab them, and they could answer the question with their knowledge and education.

We also got to walk around the Expo and sample all the amazing food, the new products coming out, met new companies, and then some of the large companies like, Subway:

And there were celebrity Chefs there to demonstrate and also sign their books, meet Chef Fabio:

It was really amazing walking around the Expo and taking in the whole experience, but the thing I loved most was:

Working the Monsanto Booth

This is Gayla, Sherri, and I working at the Monsanto Booth.   They brought Sherri, a soybean and crop farmer, and myself, a dairy farmer, down so that real farmers were represented at the conference!  I really have to applaud Monsanto, which is a seed company, so much for taking the initative to do this!  Having Sherri and I there, people really got to talk to farmers that actually grow their food for them.  We definitely met some amazing people, and answered a lot of questions!  Consumers today are very aware of food and nutrition and they really want to know exactly where their food comes from and that it is safe.  We had a lot of questions about Genetically Modified Crops (which I would go grab someone from Monsanto to explain), and are they really safe, and why do we grow them on our farm, how does it effect our cows, are our cows taken care of, how fresh is our milk, do we grow our own crops, and various other questions.  I was very proud to represent not just dairy farmers, but farmers as a whole, and we were able to explain, educate, and also dispel many misconceptions that people have about our industry.  My motto that I have taken on myself and my farm is "If you don't tell your story, somebody else will" and in the farming world I don't want people who nothing about my cows, my family, or my farm spreading lies and misconception about my industry.  I was very honored to be there and I hope that I did a good job putting a face to farmers everywhere.  The world is constantly changing and we as farmers, are changing with it.  It was incredible to be able explain how and why!  Thank you Monsanto for being so accommodating on the trip, allowing me to represent you and agriculture, and to experience such an amazing opportunity that I am very grateful and humbled.

Wednesday, October 1, 2014

A Weekend of Fun at the Wild Hog Marathon!

Wild Hog Half Marathon Runners (my dad, 2 brothers, myself, my mom, and great friend)
This last weekend we took a break from harvesting and corn chopping to drive up to Grand Forks to do a family tradition of running the Wild Hog Marathons.  The last few years my family has all participated at different levels and this year we had almost everyone there (except my husband who was stuck corn chopping and one brother and his family).
Corn Chopping was underway so my husband had zero chance in joining in the festivities
 But, lets back up.  The week before the marathon, my brother flew in to spend a week of "vacation" with us on the farm.  We spent the week running/training together (even a 20 mile run one day), shuttling kids to school and activities, working on the farm, homework, and all the things at are the "norm" in our lives.  One very special day, my brother put his army uniform on and we drove into my kids' school and he got the opportunity to speak to their classes about what its like to be a Captain in the U.S. Army.  Also that same day, my kindergartener had Parent Lunch so we all got to eat a school lunch together and reminisce about our childhood growing up.  It was a great week and we made lots of memories (and boy, do I mean lots...like almost starting the house on fire...)
My brother and his little heifer he named "Kardia" Greek meaning Heart (look at her forehead)
We drove up to Grand Forks on Thursday night so that my brother could run around on Friday and visit some of his old friends.  My kids and I went to meet up with my really good friend at Rhapsody Spa and Salon who decided to do something fun for me:
Yep, that is me with PINK hair!  Might as well do something fun and crazy for the marathon!
So after getting a new hairstyle, we headed over to the Wild Hog Kids Marathon for packet pick-up and also to enjoy in some of the activities they had on the schedule.  My friend signed all her nieces up and my kids were all running too, so here are a couple pictures of the fun:
The kids had fun games to play together before the Kids Marathon
My brother and I even got in on the fun activities- that was a workout!


All the kids joining in the fun!
Kids lining-up with their Adult Runners for Kids Marathon (half mile)



The Pig Squeal went off signaling the beginning of the race!
All the Kid Runners after they finished their race-proudly wearing their medals!


The 3 year olds decided that "their feet hurt" so we ended up carrying them most of the way...whew!!!
 The kids all had fun at the Kids Marathon.  Then it was time to go home, eat a nutritious supper, and get some good rest because all the adults were running the Half Marathon at 8 a.m. the next morning.
This is us walking to the Half Marathon starting line at 7 a.m.  The nervous jitters are starting...
Well we all got up, got our running attire on, laced up our shoes, and pinned our bib numbers on.  The weather was perfect, slight chill in the morning but still comfortable enough to not need a jacket.  We walked over to the race because parking was going to be a nightmare and it was only 1 mile from my parents house.  When we got there, did a last bathroom break, then lined up behind our Pacer that we were going to use to be able to finish in our goal times.  It ended up that my brother, my dad, and myself were right behind the 2:00 hour guy (my ultimate goal was to run all 13.1 miles in under 2 hours but I was not going to kill myself trying to do it because in one month I have the Full 26.2-mile Marine Corp Marathon).  I got my GPS set-up, my music started, laces checked, equipment checked, and waited through both the Canadian National Anthem and our National Anthem to hear the 'Pig Squeal'.  At exactly 8 a.m, there was the squeal and all the nervous runners advanced forward to the starting gate.  I had a great song from the 'Top Gun' soundtrack playing, my legs felt ready, had tons of energy, so I took off after the 2:00 pacer guy and kept him in my sights for the first few miles.  I easily settled into a rhythm and didn't have to run around too many runners to find a comfortable place in the pack.

There were spectators, cheerleaders, family, and friends that were lined along the race with creative signs to motivate their loved ones.  One that made me frustrated was around 2.5 miles it said "You are NOT almost done"...I actually groaned out-loud in frustration!  But, there were some really cute ones that made you laugh or took your mind off running for an instant (such as a little 3 or 4 year old girl who was cuter than anything was holding a bright pink sign saying "Run Faster, I Just Farted!"...(I had to pause and wonder if she actually knew what she was holding!) Or a great one towards the end was "Shut Up Legs!"

For the first couple of miles, I was a little worried that this pace (9 minute miles) was going to be too quick of a pace for me to maintain all 13.1 miles but I told myself "just keep the pacer carrying the white balloon in your sights".  I stopped at each water-break (every 2 miles), walked for about 10 seconds to drink my water and not spill it all over me, then had to sprint off to catch my pacer because he never stopped and walked.  There was quite a large group of runners that started the race off together with the hopes of finishing in a sub-2 hour time, but as we got to about 5 and 6 miles, the group was getting smaller and smaller until there was just a handful of us as we crossed the bridges into East Grand Forks.  My music was still motivating me, my legs felt good, and I didn't experience any fatigue yet so I just stayed on the heels of my pacer.  I also felt confident because the weekend before my brother and I did a 20 miler, so how hard was a 13.1 going to be?!?  ***Sidenote*** this is where training really pays off!  I had trained and experimented with my Gel Squeezes, my running attire, my music, whether to drink water or Gatorade, which headphones to wear, etc, on all my long runs in the past few months.  I knew at exactly 4 miles and 8 miles (which I have found is my optimum time) I needed to eat a gel squeeze, I knew how much water I had to drink at each station, I even knew what songs would be coming up on my playlist.  So I was reassured that I had everything I needed to run a good race.  Most importantly, I heeded all the advice of all the trainers/runners/experts/my family and didn't change a thing in my routine the day of the race.  Very, very important and something to keep in mind if you have never raced before.

About mile 10 was when the self-talk started.  I noticed my pacer look down at his GPS watch and must have noticed we were behind on pace because he started running faster and the GPS voice in my earphones said, "You are running 8.6 mph"!  I thought, holy moly, no wonder why it seems like I am having to work harder!  Before this moment, my thoughts were relatively quiet and calm.  I was enjoying the the weather, the environment, the fans, and just the morning in general.  But, mostly I was enjoying running without getting tired (I have had 4 babies and after each baby I could barely run 1 lap on a track, so for me to run this long and this fast is quite a long road of hard work!)  But, this was where the mental game started for me.  These were a few of the thoughts I had running through my head to try to keep me on my pacers heels:

You have made it this far at this pace, you can run for 3 more miles. 
Just 27 more minutes of running. 
You really aren't that tired. 
Look at that person over there, if they can do it, you can!
You are not a quitter.
You are 3/4 of the way done!
You are a machine, you are a machine, you are a machine, you are a machine!

It is almost amazing the thoughts that go through your head when you are in a race.  I know that when I have to do the Marine Corp Full Marathon that it will be a lot tougher to keep your self-talk positive and keep pushing yourself.  But, at mile 11 I told myself I had less than 20 minutes to go so I decided to creep up and run right next to my pacer instead of following him.  At this time, I turned my head and noticed that I was the only one left in his group!  So he and I ran stride-for-stride until just after 12 miles when I decided that I felt great enough that it was time to come in UNDER 2 hours so I started to elongate my stride and pull ahead of him.  This is where all my interval runs on the treadmill have totally paid off!  It trained me to sprint even when my legs feel heavy and tired.  As I turned the corner east on 47th Ave, in the distance I could see the Finish Line so I picked up my pace to finish in 1 hour, 59 minutes, and 3 seconds:


Sprinting to the Finish Line in under my goal time!

Here is the rest of my family finishing:
My brother came in first in our group!  Great Job!

 My other brother crossing the finish line just behind me!  Awesome!

 My Dad crossing the finish line just after me!
My friend coming in faster than she did last year!  That's a PR!
My mom powering through to the finish line completing her first ever Half Marathon!  I have to give my brother a lot of props because he went back and picked every one up in our group and finished with them (not me...I was just behind him!)


So this race I set a Personal Record by almost 30 minutes (a few years ago we raced the Half Marathon in Fargo, ND right after I had my last baby).  Thank you Grand Forks Half Marathon- Wild Hog-for putting on such a fun and well-organized race!
I am so proud of my kids, my family, my friends, and myself for putting all the time and effort into training and running an amazing race!  It was a weekend where lots of memories were made and there is something to be said about a group of runners coming together, supporting each other through something that challenges not only your body, but your mind and spirit as well.  If you have never participated in a race before, I would highly recommend for you to jump on-line, do some research, and find one in your area that interests you and sign-up.  There are lots of races all over your state or country where you and your family can do something that is so memorable that you will all be proud of your accomplishments...and, BONUS, you even get a medal to hang on the wall...

...and maybe, quite possibly, if you run hard enough, even get carried home after the race!

Thursday, September 18, 2014

Let's Talk About the New "Undercover" Video Released From 'Mercy For Animals'

This morning I woke up and read an e-mail from the N.D. Dairy Coalition filling me in on the news that there has been another disturbing video released from the group 'Mercy for Animals' showing a New Mexico Dairy inhumanely treating their dairy cows and calves.  I read the article stating that there "shows workers punching, kicking and whipping cows and shocking their genitals with electric prods, tossing calves into truck beds, using heaving equipment to force sick animals into confined spots and committing other types of abuse.."  http://www.freep.com/story/news/local/michigan/2014/09/17/cheese-animal-cruelty-dominos/15774569/

As a dairy farmer, this is not the first time that I have been told about "undercover videos" on dairy farms showing inhumane treatment and downright cruelty.  I very, very vividly remember the first time I ever saw one of those videos when I first married into my husband's dairy farm family.  It was about 10 years ago and my husband told me very solemnly to "come look at this" on the internet.  What I saw in 5 seconds had my stomach rolling, tears streaming down my face, my heart hurting, and a rage towards the person that was inflicting pain on a calf that I wanted to reach through the computer, grab the stick out of his hand and do to him exactly what he did to the calf (Now that is NOT the correct thing to do because that won't solve anything but doesn't part of you want to give them a piece of their own medicine?!?)

This is one of my calves on my dairy.  Adorable.  Who would hurt want to hurt her!?!

There are so many emotions that go through me as once again there is another video released.  So let me speak from the heart and address a couple issues that I have the most problem with coming from a dairy farmer perspective:

1. I understand that this is an undercover video, but how in the world can the person that is "filming" this footage stand by idly and watch this abuse take place and NOT INTERVENE and STOP IT!!!  What the heck are you trying to prove by having abuse after abuse footage and allowing an animal to be hurt for the sake of filming a video?  Are you taking the stance that "it is for the bigger picture"?  Well, what about THAT specific cow?  What about THAT calf?  Where is YOUR so-called "mercy" that you preach so highly of yourself and your group???  All life is sacred and should be protected.  Where were you to stop the mistreatment?  Why didn't you be the voice for that animal and stay "STOP!"

2. Could this video possibly be a set-up where the cruelty was "staged"?  I have been to many dairy farms and I have never and I mean never seen cruelty or inhumane acts such as depicted in this video.  Would this "Mercy For Animals" do this just to advance their own agenda?  Something to consider...
3.  As a dairy farmer we stand firmly on we don't condone or allow any mistreatment of animals in any way shape or form on our dairy farm.  But, I do have to say, there are times that to a non-farm person that it may seem like we are "hurting" our animals.  There is a great Blog by a fellow dairy farmer, Dairy Carrie, addressing that issue entitled "Sometime We Are Mean To Our Cows" :  http://dairycarrie.com/2013/12/09/cowabuse/
This is definitely worth the read and will give a different perspective from the dairy farmers side.  But, let me get this straight right off the bat: WE ARE NOT ABUSING OUR ANIMALS!  There are times on a dairy farm that we have to do things such as lift a down cow, that from a non-farmer can look cruel and inhumane, but it isn't.  Read her blog, she does a fantastic job of explaining it.  Just to reiterate, lifting a down cow and whipping them with a chain aren't even close to the same thing, obviously, but really scrutinize whether they are trying to intentionally hurt or help the animal.

4.  Dairy Farmers you need to do everything in YOUR power to make sure this is not happening on your farm!  Now I understand you can't be at your farm 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, and we need to trust our employees to make sure that they take care of not only your animals, but your farm when you aren't there.  But there are certain steps you can take to make sure you hire the best employees, to your knowledge!
  Such As:
           A.  We have Cameras all over our farm!  We have 14 different cameras set-up all over our farm from the calf barn, to the cow barn, to the feed area, to the offices, the shop, etc.  It is DVR recorded so that if there is ever an issue, we hit the rewind button and can see exactly what happened because WE HAVE IT ON TAPE! It is also recording nonstop so we can hand the tape over to the proper authorities if needed (and we pray that we won't have to).  But our employees know that we can see them at all times.  Also, another feature is the cameras are linked to our phones so even we aren't there, we can jump on our phone and watch in 'real time' what is exactly happening right now!  So fellow dairy farmers, if you don't have a security system/cameras, get one!
          B.  Make sure when you hire a new employee, have specific protocols that you have in place so that they know exactly what your farm stands for!  We have a very in-depth hiring process that we go through with a new employee.  Our farm has over a 30 page 'New Hire Protocol Book' with multiple things that the owner and the new employee will go through step-by-step.  The owner will explain each page, the new employee will ask any questions or concerns, and then they will both SIGN and DATE each page saying they understand and accept full responsibility!  The first is a 'Code of Conduct' which states specifically what the rules and regulations are on this farm such as our ethics, morals, and character that we expect from EVERY employee.  Then we go through our dairy farms' Mission Statement and why we are dairy farmers and we expect them to represent and uphold that at all times.  Next is a 23 page Handbook that further discusses the rules, regulations, behavior, reprocussions, disciplinary action, etc in detail.  Lastly, our farm specifically addresses humane treatment of animals.  It is a program called "See It, Stop It" that boldly states that there will be no unethical, cruel, or inhumane treatment of animals or towards other people allowed on our farm PERIOD.  It also states that if you see or witness any inhumane treatment and do nothing to stop it, you are JUST AS GUILTY as the person who committed the act!  Obviously the person that was filming the undercover video for 'Mercy for Animals' didn't have to sign this type of contract because in ours it says that both parties will be prosecuted to the fullest extent!  Then lastly spend time training, educating, and coaching your employees not just when they are new, but continually!  Each one of these steps are in-place to protect the farm, the animals, the employees, and also my family.
        C.  Conduct background checks, references, and past employers of your employees!  Do your research on anyone wanting to come work on your farm.  My family lives right next to the dairy farm so I am very protective of anyone who sets foot on it let alone work here.  All my employees know this and some are just as protective of our dairy, if not more, than we are!
         5.  Owners: stay involved on your farm!  We are constantly at our dairy at all  hours of the day and night "just checking on things".  My husband is the person on-call when something goes wrong and so there are many times at 2 a.m. he is over there fixing a motor, I.V.ing a down cow, or whatever emergency has come up.  Don't just stick your head in the sand and rely on your employees to do everything.  Lead by example!

       6.  Have employee meetings.  Every 2 weeks on 'pay day' we have employee meetings where we sit down, have lunch together, and discuss any new rules, regulations, concerns, problems, etc that could have come up since the last meeting.  This is also a great time to do training, educational videos, or discuss new protocols.  On our farm, we see our employees as an extension of our family and we treat them as such.  They are not just our employees.  They spend a significant amount of time at their jobs so we value them as people and individuals.
      7.  Defend your farm with a fierceness!  Each one of our employees knows what we stand for, what the rules are, and why we do what we do.  They know what we expect of them and how they are suppose to conduct themselves and their behavior.  I hope and pray that each of our employees have the same moral character that we as the owners do.  God gave us the responsibility to protect, defend, and care for over 1200 animals.  That is an immense responsibility and I cannot and will not look at that lightly, EVER!  Being a dairy farmer is in every fiber of mine and my families being.  It is who we are!  These aren't just animals to me, they aren't my livelihood, they aren't how they make our money..they are part of my family!  When they hurt, we hurt for them.  When they are sad or sick, my heart feels for them.  When they are happy and enjoying life, I feel the exhilaration with them.  And not just our animals but all animals as a whole!  Being a farmer is an amazing life, but with great blessings comes great responsibility.
    8.  Last I pray for the farm that was filmed during this "undercover video".  I pray for the people committing the cruel acts, I pray for the owners, I pray for everyone involved that justice will be served.  Most importantly I pray for each and every animal that was hurt, in pain, scared, stressed, helpless, or abused by the making of this "undercover video".  Please understand there are over 47,000 dairy farm families that work hard every day to provide a safe, protected environment for their animals!  Sadly when these videos come out, people question the integrity of not just dairy farming but all farms in general.  Finally may we all treat each other and our animals with the same love and respect that we want to be shown in return.


Tuesday, September 16, 2014

2014 Monsanto Photo Shoot

Family Photo Taken

So yesterday in the mail I received a very exciting package that I have been waiting for very, very anxiously!  Back in June we hosted our Biannual Breakfast on the Farm and we had some very amazing guests that came and spent the weekend with us!  Three very talented people came on behalf of Monsanto to photograph and video our family, our farm, and also our 2014 Breakfast on the Farm.  It was an incredible experience and I am so overwhelmed that they were able to capture that experience on film so that we can forever have those pictures! 

So last night, I jumped on the computer and started downloading right away.  They gave me all the proofs so I wasn't surprised that it was going to take 15 minutes to download 384 pictures!  But, what did surprise me so were the waves of emotions that came over me as I started to flip through them (with my husband staring over one shoulder and my son on the other).  We got a play-by-play of the whole experience all over again!  From the incredible photo shoot we had the day before of the farm, my family, my extended family and friends that were visiting, the animals on our farm, to the next day when we actually had the Breakfast: the early sunrise was breathtaking, the set-up, the people coming, the amazing friends and volunteers that we had to help, the tours, to the whole experiences of the day!  We three laughed, giggled, screeched in delight, grumbled and groaned at some horrible shots that made us look weird, and I even cried at a few...ok a lot...like this one:
My oldest son walked up to me at the photo shoot, gave me one of his indescribable hugs (you know the one where a kid holds you really tight and hugs you with everything they have?) and the photographer turned and snapped the picture really quick.  He was able to catch that essence of my son that I love so much!


Or this one:


The Bash Brothers are inseparable and almost always up to no good


The oldest two waving at Grandpa as he pulls into the yard!

4 Generations Family Photo

My hero, my husband, and myself

The first man in my life, my dad, presenting my award to me at the Breakfast while my newest, little man sits behind me.  Along with my new amazing friend.


Northern Lights Dairy in the middle of God's Country


Tour rides going out with our amazing friends helping out


A new baby that needed help being born on the first tour out for the Breakfast.  The tour got to see quite a miracle birth!


My brother flew in to help drive tractors for the tours
Family friends little girl awed by a new baby coming into this world...oh, the blessings of farm life!

And these are just a few of the photos that had me reaching for a Kleenex.  You see each one has such extreme sentimental value to me and the photographer captured it just perfectly.  I am humbled that Monsanto spent their time, their effort, and their resources to be able to put such a collage together of everything that is so special in my life.  Each person in these pictures have a piece of my heart and I love them each with such fierceness it is very hard to put into words (there were some loved ones that weren't able to make it...we sincerely missed you).

We live a very blessed life that I am humbled by it every day.  Some day when it is my turn to go to heaven, I know I will look back and say "That was one heck of an amazing run..." and then I will look to God and hope that I will hear him say those most perfect words that we all hope to hear: "Well done, good and faithful servant".

Thank you to all of you there were able to be part of that weekend.  To see more pictures you can go to: https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.562775840488606.1073741829.187837441315783&type=1&l=f5a80330a1

So if you have delayed taking family pictures for whatever reason, go book that appointment, buy the silly matching shirts, get all polished up, and take those memories and put them in a photo album and showcase it!  Some day you might be going through some tough times where you might NEED a reminder of how fortunate, blessed, and great YOUR life is.  Or in the future when your kids, your grandkids, and your great grandkids are sitting around together looking at the photo album, they can reminisce to all their loved ones about your amazing life!  So get ready and most importantly say, "Cheese!"

Family Photo

Friday, August 29, 2014

"Anyone Else Getting Nervous Yet? I Know I Am!"

 It is less than 2 months until the official start of the 2014 Marine Corp Marathon!  My brother just posted a question on my Facebook a few days ago and my dad, brothers, and I all responded with "nervous, excited, scared, etc"  But I do have to say, I am a lot less scared than I was a month ago.  I had taken a week off of my training for our summer vacation and as I sat at the resort with a Twisted Tea in one hand and nachos in the other, I started to get very fidgety about actually running 26.2 miles in less than 100 days!  I mean, who in their right mind voluntarily signs up to do such a daunting thing on top of 4 kids, a business to run, school activities, kids sports, church, clubs, and all our harvest/field work we have to do in the next 2 months?  I have never claimed that I am the sharpest knife in the drawer, but as I sat there I came to the conclusion that yes, I may not be very smart but if my husband and I can train and do this, then we can do anything!

So ever since we got back from our summer vacation, the switch has been thrown.  We are dedicated to following our training schedule, have changed our nutrition, been getting adequate rest, and are in full-blown marathon-mode.  Andrew gets up early in the morning to get his run in, and I do mine in the little "cracks" of my day so sometimes it is in the morning, sometimes lunch-break, sometimes right before I get the kids off the bus, sometimes around the football field while my kids are practicing, and even a few times after the kids have gone to bed for the night...but I get it done.  I really have to say that my husband is my hero when it comes to doing his training.  His plate is so full he barely even gets to go to bed at night.  But he committed to doing this back in the spring, and he will see it through because if you have ever met him, that is just the way he is.

 I am already proud of my family and the amount of time and effort we have put into training and getting 'marathon ready'.  But, I do have to say that flying into our nations capital, lacing up our shoes, having those pre-race jitters during the National Anthem, and finally hearing that gun go off will be something that I will never ever forget and never be able to put into words how significant of a moment that will be in our lives.  This is definitely a "Bucket List" moment for us all and I challenge you and your family to go out and do something so significant, so memorable, so moving that it changes who you are.  Spending hours and hours running with just you and the pavement definitely molds you into a different person.  I am glad that this isn't easy, or simple, or quick.  I revel in the fact that I have to have pain, aches, sores, tiredness, blood, struggles, and even some tears to be able to do this.  It means that I am alive and capable of so much more than I ever thought I would be!  Take those doubts, reservations, and restrictions off yourself and do something that is so challenging that it SCARES YOU!  What are you scared off?  Now image how you would feel if you actually did it!  Take a moment...what are you capable of?  What have you always wanted to do?





Monday, August 25, 2014

Tired of Seeing the ALS Bucket Challenge Yet?!?

So the "rave" all over Facebook for the last week or more has been this 'ALS Ice Bucket Challenge'.  Some of you may even be getting down-right sick and tired of seeing it.  My friend, Kristen Nickerson who is the America's Farmers Northeast Region Farm Mom of the Year, sent me an e-mail a few days ago nominating me to do the challenge.  For about a week or so before that I had seen plenty of friends, family, neighbors, strangers, even celebrities take a short video of themselves calling out some names of who they challenge then the final hurrah was the ice bucket going over their head and some sort of laugh, scream, squeal, or shout of "That was COLD!'"

Well, Kristen set the bar pretty high so we had to rise to the challenge.  This is Video Link of my family doing the ALS Ice Bucket Challenge:
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=10152655250269920&l=4525738952428274749

It was a fun experience and I'm sure that we made some memories for the kids.  But, pause for a second...that isn't the reason that all of us are lining up to voluntarily dump ice water on ourselves.  So what is the reason?  What is ALS?  Why has this taken off to be such a social media craze?  So I did some research to answer those questions:
 "Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS), often referred to as "Lou Gehrig's Disease," is a progressive neurodegenerative disease that affects nerve cells in the brain and the spinal cord. Motor neurons reach from the brain to the spinal cord and from the spinal cord to the muscles throughout the body. The progressive degeneration of the motor neurons in ALS eventually leads to their death. When the motor neurons die, the ability of the brain to initiate and control muscle movement is lost. With voluntary muscle action progressively affected, patients in the later stages of the disease may become totally paralyzed"...(http://www.alsa.org/about-als/what-is-als.html)

But, who actually started the Ice Bucket Challenge and why?  Take a moment and meet Pete Frates, 29, former Boston College Baseball Star who had an amazingly bright future, until he was diagnosed with ALS.  Here is his story, click on the link and meet the man behind this phenomenon:
 http://espn.go.com/boston/story/_/id/11366772/in-als-fight-pete-frates-message-loud-clear-ice-bucket-challenge

So after seeing that, doesn't it make you want to line up and just dump a bucket of cold water on yourself?  Now some people are poking fun at it such as this:




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And there are the "Haters" that have posted negative things as to why you shouldn't, or how much water it is wasting, or people aren't actually donating, or the money isn't actually going to the research or whatever.  But, to those people I say, look someone in the face with this horrible disease of ALS and tell them that:

This is Anthony Carbajal and him, his mom, and his grandmother all suffer from ALS.  Here is his story: http://www.businessinsider.com/this-is-the-heartbreaking-als-ice-bucket-challenge-that-may-finally-quiet-all-the-haters-2014-8

So whether you choose to dump ice water on your head or not, lets get back to the fact that there are people that have this horrible disease and it hasn't gotten a lot of attention as compared to others in the past.  So what if you are tired of seeing it in your Facebook Feed.  Let ALS have the spotlight for once!  I'm sure the people that have the disease are sick and tired of having to suffer, struggle, and fight against it every day.  Let them finally revel in the fact that millions of dollars have been donated for research to help find a cure!  And finally, let us all show that we still care about each other.  Show your heart, your compassion, and your support, because the world definitely needs it!